Teach self-control first

Child-centered parenting leads to children who have a false sense of self-reliance. Teach your child self-control before allowing him to learn self-reliance.

Funnel Pitfall #4: You don’t consider social situations

An important aspect of keeping your child in the funnel is preparing him for social situations.

Funnel Pitfall #3: You don’t require your child to ask for permission

Require your child to ask for your permission before engaging in any questionable activity. It will prevent disobedience and cut down on your (and his) frustration level.

Funnel Pitfall #2: You award freedoms based on age rather than responsibility

Always award freedoms based on your child’s level of responsibility, not his age.

Funnel Pitfall #1—You don’t house-proof your child

Not house-proofing your child is funnel pitfall #1 in determining what freedoms are age-appropriate.

The funnel–keeping freedoms age-appropriate

Limiting your child’s freedoms and keeping him “inside the funnel” can go a long way toward improving his behavior and reducing your frustration.